Sometimes pharmaceuticals have their place. .

Hi all :)

For those who know us, know that Matty and I are not big on taking 'pills' for every little ache and pain that comes our way. I mean I gave birth to Huxley without any medication for goodness sakes but definitely took a full round of pain relief after! Obviously medication is needed sometimes and we've got to be thankful that we have plenty of access to whatever we need. I think that when we thought about having children we thought that they by no means would ever 'suffer' but that maybe they would adopt our philosophy of conscious medicating. However, life had other plans and Huxley has been prescribed a medication to calm his tight muscles caused by his high tone. Personally, this made me feel pretty uncomfortable and a little sad that he might need to take a pill(s) daily for one reason or another but its just one more thing to let go of and move on. 

When Huxley first had seizures in the NICU he was put on Phenobarbital, a very popularly used anti-seizure medication. The day he was weaned off we were overjoyed/nervous and 'knock on wood' but we haven't had any seizures return. 

Now Huxley is on a medication called 'Baclofen' and it took a little while to play with correct dosage, but since being on it we've seen him spend longer periods of time alone on his back playing on the floor, we've seen him comfortably sit crossed legged with support, he's been guiding spoonfuls of baby food up to his mouth with minimal assistance, and his hands have been much more relaxed. 

Amazing. 

Happy that our boy is feeling more comfortable in his body :) 

<3

All of the Tools..

Our house is slowly being overrun by tools and adaptive equipment for Mr. Huxley. We are SO lucky to have an amazing team of therapists from a centre here in Victoria called 'Queen Alexandra Centre for Children's Health.' They have an equipment lending service which has provided us with an abundance of things to try out with Huxley. I think about what it would cost us if this service wasn't available and it just makes me shudder. 

It started out slow.. 

At first we were given a giant mirror to distract Huxley and to help us to be able to monitor his body alignment while we played. 

You can see the awesome mirror there on the left (good for checking push up alignment too haha)


Then we were given a few toys which Hux still loves to play with: a switch toy and a sensory ball. 

That big yellow ball is the sensory ball :)

Gradually as we learned that Huxley was going to need support to experience different body positions, bigger pieces of equipment started to fill our house. 

This piece of equipment is called a "Tadpole" It can help Huxley find support in a multitude of different positions, he's practicing 'posting up' in this picture :)

Sometimes children with 'high tone' tend to stand right up on their tippy toes when placed in a standing position. People often say 'Wow, Huxley is so strong' (and yes in a lot of ways he is) but, he sometimes uses his high muscle tone too much and standing on tippy toes is not only hard on the toes but his calfs and hamstrings may get overly tight if he continues to practice standing in that way. A piece of equipment that is used to help children stand properly and enjoy being upright to play is something called a 'stander.' Here's Huxley thoroughly enjoying some independent play :)

QA didn't lend us the big body pillow pictured bellow but lately we've been using it to help support Huxley on his tummy and on his back. He seems to be enjoying it :) 

In a previous post I talked about this little chair called the 'tomato chair' (weird names right?) it is a supportive seating system that we hope Huxley will become comfortable with over time. QA has brought in several different seating options and so far the tomato chair has worked the best. 

Check out this neat band around Huxleys hand, it helps him to grip and hang onto a spoon. He is SO interested in feeding himself. Lately Hux has had great success bringing food towards his mouth or guiding our hands to do so. This kid is determined. I couldn't be more proud.

As many of you know, Huxley is yet to be mobile and is pretty uncomfortable being left on his back or tummy on the floor for too long. Huxley is also not able to go in a stroller and his car seat has become unsafe (long story). SO we carry him a lot. I feel so thankful that carriers exist, my favourite is a woven wrap and below I've put together a compilation of all the different ones I've had the pleasure of wearing :) (Big shout out to my lovely neighbour Sarah across the street for giving me the opportunity to wear so many different ones!!) I will always have a woven wrap because they are sturdy and hug Huxley in which makes him feel very secure and happy but the time is coming that we are going to need to put him on our backs in a supportive carrier. I'm on the hunt for one that has a high back so that his neck can be comfortably supported. If you have any thoughts or suggestions on a carrier that would work well for us please share! 

It is with a heavy heart that I have accepted equipment for Huxley into our home. I am SO glad that they exist and that we have access but it doesn't make it any easier and you truly never think that your child will need support in every aspect of their life. 

Big Sigh. 

Moving on. 

As always, from the bottom of our hearts, thank you for reading about our journey

xo.

An Inchstone post!

Hamming it up with Dad!

Sometimes in special needs parenting groups, inchstones are more often celebrated then milestones. If you aren't sure what milestones are, here is googles description: 

1. Developmental milestones are behaviors or physical skills seen in infants and children as they grow and develop. Rolling over, crawling, walking, and talking are all considered milestones. The milestones are different for each age range.

I realized that although informational, some of the previous posts have been a little dreary... So for this post I thought that I would share with you some of Huxleys inchstones!

Inchstone #1/2/3! Lately Hux has been bringing his hands to his mouth more often and reaching towards the spoon when we feed him :) He's becoming more tolerable on his back, and this week he has rolled from back to front 5 times!

Here's inchstone #4, Huxley has a new chair that he is practicing sitting in daily. He's slowly getting more comfortable. This is huge.

 Inchstone #5! Look at how relaxed Huxleys hand is. Huxley 'fists' his hands a lot but more and more we've been able to see and feel his relaxed hands touching us. It's beautiful. 

Inchstone #6! Huxley graduated from Music/Occupational Therapy camp :) It was such a blast and Huxley learned a lot! Thanks so much to Victoria Conservatory for putting on this free camp for children with special needs. Huxley strummed guitars, played the drums, socialized with other kiddos, enjoyed the songs, and loved parachute play! In two weeks we will be attending Music/Speech therapy camp. We're excited <3 That's all for now folks! Thanks for all of your support xoxo

Fattening mission

Hey all :)

Let's talk food

Here's Hux with his first food on his face at 5.5 months old, Banana! 

In my last post I was describing the challenges that we face surrounding Huxley's high tone. Tone challenges is a characteristic of cerebral palsy. Tone challenges can make gaining weight very hard on people with cerebral palsy. 

With 'low tone' people may have troubles coordinating suck and swallow reflexes. Feeding was the main reason for our extended stay at the NICU but we were able to leave the hospital with Huxley happily breastfeeding (thankfully). 

As I described in the previous post, Huxley has 'mixed tone' but his 'high tone' is what causes the most grief. Huxley is actively moving throughout the day, there are only few moments in each day that he is fully still. When Huxley gets excited, when he's concentrating, or when he's upset, his muscles contract. What this looks like is his fists clench, toes curl, and his body can go rigid. Huxley's attempts to function in his daily life takes so much more effort then a neuro typical (NT) child. Huxley's injury has caused a disconnect between what he wants to do and coordination of his body parts to achieve that want. Instead of reaching to grasp something, Huxley swings his arm several times (although it is getting much better) to reach for what he wants. All of this extra movement and the extra contractions of his muscles burns a lot of calories. We've been very lucky up until this point with Huxley's weight gain. Hux is still gaining weight but just slowly and at his last pediatricians appointment he dipped below the percentile scale. We don't want Hux to lose any weight so we are going to be adding as many 'fattening' foods to his diet as we can! 

Here's a list of fat building foods for little ones :)

Whole milk

Whole yogurt

Cheese

Banana

Avocado

Sweet potato

Eggs

Potato

Butter

Peanut butter

Olive oil

Hummus

Guacamole

Cottage cheese

Beans

Cream cheese

Honey

Let's hope we can fatten up this boy! He certainly loves his food. We are still mostly giving Huxley blended food but he does pretty well with bites of food too :) 

Beets at 11 months!

I'm working on a big post that will show Hux using all of the equipment that we have for him but it's going to take a while to take all of the pictures. Stay tuned!